IMO - the foam is not all that bad and being your first time the moment is going to be a little awkward to start with any ways..... therefore, I would suggest waiting a little longer or at least allowing yourself to know that the first time is not going to be what the media makes it out to be.

For most females the first time is more about sharing your self (body & soul) with the man you love or about not be a virgin any more - than sexual pleasure.