No judgment from me on that score. You did put a trigger warning in the title. It might not be a bad idea to get a mod to help put an additional trigger warning near the link because it's so graphic (she said as gently as possible) but i don't think you should feel badly about what you wrote or that you didn't think to put an additional warning near the link. i can tell you're a caring person. We write what we write from the space we're in when we're writing it. i think we censor ourselves enough already. i do understand feeling badly though cuz i'm just as good at beating myself up. i think we've been beaten enough tyvm.