Kids love you to be over the top ! Whats embarrasing to you and me is not the them....

Tell her how much you love her and no way could you live without her ! So she HAS to come with you but that she can still see the other mum !

I moved with and eight year old plus younger ones with my new hubby to the other end of the country and they took the move just fine as I constantly reasured them how much they was loved and how exciteing it will be getting new friends and going to a new school wow your so lucky ! New bedroom maybe even a new toy lol.

Never make the mistake of running the other mum down as they will hear and be really upset by it, no matter what you think of her just tell your daughter that the other mum loves her too so everyone will make sure you see her !