wow sept how ppl can change, eh? But in reading that, I was thinking of my own two sons... the older one always "tried"things on the younger (kinda the let mikey try it?) he mad mud pies and had the younger one taste it, he would have the younger one go out on a limb (sometimes literally) and tell him, it's ok, you'll be ok... and there would go the younger one...

today, the older one is a district manager for a large high end retail electronics company (telling others what to do) and the younger one is Delta force (or higher) attempting everything without fear! He... flies btw for the Army...