The old saying ....... how do you get a guy to stop having sex ? Marry him. How do you get him started again ..... buy him a power saw.

Husbands and wives seem to fall into the trap of forgetting romance. Seduction is the key to getting pretty much whatever you want in the sack. But that seduction starts early in the day and might need to go on for a few days to build it to where the tension is just right for the actions to happen.

Considering that I have no idea what his performance on intercourse is its quite possible that oral sex is her only method of orgasm. That might be a cause of his anxiety or disengagement. He might feel inadequate, especially if he likes intercourse. As we age the methods of intimate interaction need to be modified more into a giving mode than a receiving. And once that is done the back and forth will work well.

I'm sure if she wants a new ring he will get her whatever she wants.

Cheers
JDS