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Old Apr 19, 2009, 04:16 PM
Vlo1980 Vlo1980 is offline
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Hey Michelle!

Hey, lighten up! Just because he made a new friend doesn't mean he's going to ditch you. Do you have feelings for him?

I can understand and relate to how you feel but we have to guard against the tendency to want our friends all to ourselves. If they confide in others, do not take offense and perhaps even shun them. Learn that we all need to widen out in our friendships. Allow your friends to develop other friendships too. He needs privacy and maybe even time to himself, we all do. While you should not hesitate to reach out to him, try to be balanced and thoughtful. I know that's hard to do when you find someone you adore and love to spend time with but it's important. According to what you wrote it seems like he cares about you very much so you have absolutely nothing to fear. The best thing to do is to open up to him and tell him how you feel. Everything will be alright, you'll see!

Hope you're having a good weekend.