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Originally Posted by JS1scuba
The old saying ....... how do you get a guy to stop having sex ? Marry him. How do you get him started again ..... buy him a power saw.
Husbands and wives seem to fall into the trap of forgetting romance. Seduction is the key to getting pretty much whatever you want in the sack. But that seduction starts early in the day and might need to go on for a few days to build it to where the tension is just right for the actions to happen.
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AMEN! -
Oh how I wish your train of thought would get in my husbands mind and stay there, for it is usually me that keeps the passion and seduction alive in our marriage after twenty-three years while hubby has turned more into a man that waits until he wants sex to be friendly or seductive and that is about once every two weeks.... and that just doesn't do it for me - I want (need) smiles touches kisses words of endearment through out the week to be ready to jump in the sack when he's ready on the weekend.
What can I say - when he wants it he will do what he needs to get it, but when he is not in the mood it is me that suffers - thank goodness for adult toys tucked ever so nicely away in a pretty pink (zipper) pillow.
I am starting to think this is what life becomes for a married couple after they have been together for twenty-six years.... life changes, health issues start, stress grows and hormones are depleted.... but the end the inner love remains.
Well ..... at least he still touches me there.
