The boyfriend and I. I went down there this weekend, and we talked it all out. He's actually reading about what all I've been diagnosed with (or close to in the realm of the undecideds) and he is going to seek counseling for himself, as well, for his seperation issues and anger issues. We'll still be living 150 miles apart and visiting for the time being, but it is a start. I'm feeling optimistic about it. And he was a good support when I found out my grandfather was hospitalized up in Iowa with pneumonia and septicemia.