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Hi. I'm relatively new, but I want to say, don't stop posting. Many of us here have the same experience, that the pain never goes away. But it's OK to say so, again and again, because many of us understand.
"i stopped posting because i thought people would be tired of hearing the same stuff. nothing got better if anything they are worse. why even bother???????? the pain never goes away"
Sometimes it's good to hear from others in the same situation, because then we know we're not alone (misery loves company, lol). No really, I think you ought to feel welcome to keep posting and not worry. People care.
For me the pain never goes away, but there are occasional moments of happiness or joy, and some times of relative comfort or calm. For me also, it helps to know I am of value to some others, even when I feel worthless, and I think this site is one place where someone can feel as if they are of value.
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"Better to light one candle than to curse the darkness"
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