Hi Pomegranate,
I realize that sometimes our pride gets in the way sometimes. I think you should call her and tell her exactly what you told us. Don't get into who's at fault or re-hash things - just live in the moment and start fresh. You don't want to wait till it's too late. Everyday time is being wasted. As mothers we think it should be our children who make the first move, but it doesn't matter. You will look like the better person if you do it. She came from you and you need to feel her love and she needs your love. Let by-gones be by-gones. In the end all that matters is the LOVE. You'll feel so much better.