((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))) Can't really answer that for you. I think it has to be an individual choice and a timing thing. Most people say you have to forgive to truely heal. Not sure I believe that....but then again...that could be part of why I'm not healed. Use your gut instincts, be cautious with who you are trusting, and wish and pray for the best. That is another thing with me...not opening up at all over the last....many many years. This place is definitely helping me to start doing that. I'm hoping this is the first real step of recovery for me on a long term basis. Sending you good vibes...hopes....and prayers