It is a question that comes up in relationships and in girly conversation (I'm sure guys tooo but I wouldn't know for sure) so what do you say when asked? Honest? I have so many friends that are in the double maybe even triple digets and I feel so awkard saying truthfully just 2 and I married my first (after a 5 year hiatus) I will let LK dicuss him on his own. So is it still a if a girl has lots of lovers she's a slut but a guy is a stud? Double standards are soooooooooo frusterating! Just wondering about others opinions on this topic