I don't know how old you are or anything, but personally I think that sometimes we accept things in our lives because of our own weeknesses. I think it is important, however, to set up boundaries early in your life because otherwise we can end up in situations that were really preventable from the beginning. Our instincts told us that it was not a good situation (i.e., second guessing yourself by asking the question here because your want someone to agree with a bad decision), but somehow we talked ourselves into it anyway! I speak from experience and based on that experience I would have to ask you what to ask yourself what kind of life do you want to have? If you want a healthy life full of possibilities, then I think you should begin to surround yourself with healthy people and unfortunately that does not include your ex. Do yourself a favor and move on and begin to nuture yourself, you deserve better!

By the way, I did the same thing you are doing now. I came on here and asked if I should do something with my ex, everyone said no and I did it anyway...bottom line it turned out to be a disaster! We, however, have to learn for ourselves! Just trying to save you some heartache!


Best Wishes,

TJ