hello, I have written a couple of post and here I am again..well, my b/f and I have been so off and on its rediculous... My problem now is ...my 15 yr old son has brought home a "F" & " D" on his last report card..the rest of his grades are pretty good B's & C's..The b/f had grounded my son for a month now and my son is starting to show signs of frustration ..I realize that my son diserves to be diciplined but I feel the b/f is too hard on him...He never does anything with my son except for a few little chats here and there ...If the b/f was more involved with my son I wouldn't have a problem but because we live with him it's kinda hard to say anything. The b/f never praises my son and he thinks that being a drill seargent is the best form of dicipline...He never lays a hand on my son but just the tone of is voice is wrong ( I believe ) ....the b/f has never been married nor has any children but believes he has the right to dicipline my son because we are living in his home...a few months ago..my son brought home a paper stating he needed to look for a person to show him how to change oil in car, check gas gauge and to show him how to change a tire....( for auto body in school ) my son asked the b/f ...kinda made me happy that they could possibly bond alittle but the b/f had very little interest and then told my son " we will just say we changed the tire " and didnt take the time to show him...do you feel he should have the right to dicipline my son ? or am I being too hard on the b/f ? just lookin for some opinions because I am lost AGAIN ...thank you for listening