KathyAnita,

i believe i understand your intentions.

It may be that people who are at an in-patient facility (and therefore) limited in space can get along better than an on-line community... ( where space is not limited and therefore should be big enough for all without fights and bickering )...precisely because they are face to face and it is much easier for some people to confront when it is not face to face.

i agree that at times people who are angry may...possibly unconsciously... want to evoke a similar reaction in others. Perhaps negative responses provide justification in themselves for feeling angry.

Your Native American analogy was very well put.

These are simply my thoughts on what you said.

Thank you.