I was recently hurt at work, well 4 months ago. Well I hurt my back and I have nerve damage going down through my leg. My husband and I have only had sex twice in the past four months and I don't know what to do. Right now we may be looking at the option of surgery to fix my back but I don't know how long it will be before we can make love again and I don't want to loose my husband. NOt to mention he's getting more and more sexually frustrated so I really need some help. What am I to do? I'm too young to have bedroom problems I'm only 29.