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Originally Posted by Bunnylove
I have noticed those who score low on the test get a kudos and they are told they are more resilient.
So are you telling people who score high on the test they are NOT resilient?
I scored pretty high 110- and you know what? I think I am resilient:
my life absolutely stinks right now-I have not killed myself, hurt anyone else and I am a good parent.
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Where were they told they are more resilient?
I haven't seen that & since most of us have at some point been very high on this test, some over 200 I can't imagine anybody who is a regular part of the community here saying that.
I've been as high as 111 & almost anyone that knows me sees me as resilient. Like you I haven't hurt myself & have only hurt others in self defense & that was as a teen ager. I am also a good parent & also going through a rough time right now.
I personallly like the kudo's for getting in a position that has lowered the score a little because that means my life is getting a little better.
When the scores are higher telling someone to get help is not questioning there resiliency. The "strongest" of us need a hand on occassion.
peace
