Can you print out your thread and show it to T? or write down what you want to say - I wrote down things to take with me to T when I couldnt tell her and it really helped get things going after I felt we had stalled.
The other thing I do and this sounds really dumb (and feels it) but I close my eyes and answer when the words dont come - it takes a while but the words come then
I hope you find somthing that works for you
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts 
its how many times you get back up! 
(Thanks to fenrir for my Picture 
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet