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Originally Posted by Vlo1980
Hi William! 
I have problems with trust too. When our trust is betrayed repeatedly, we start to think carefully about our choice of associations, yet to withdraw from people entirely so as to avoid the risk of being let down is not the solution because being mistrustful of others robs us of our own happiness.
It'll take time for you to trust people again but you must be patient, since trust is earned over a period of time. The wise course is to extend your trust to someone gradually, step-by-step. What I do is, I observe a person’s conduct over a period of time, noting how he/she acts in certain situations. If that person is trustworthy in small matters, then we may feel that we can safely extend our trust to him/her in more serious matters. Not trusting anyone or anything can be very dangerous because it can destroy what othewise might be happy, close relationships. It can make you a very unhappy and friendless person, don't let that happen to you.
Take care. 
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Your totally right VLO1980! I noticed that its been getting in the way of me experiencing healthy relationships and close connections. That's some good advice VLO1980, I'll take it into consideration. Thanks!