Also want to add that a friend can be honest with you when they feel there is something you should change or if they feel you are making a mistake. A friend or someone who cares does not judge you, they aren't mean, they don't say things to hurt you. They tell you what they think in a kind way and then want to know how you feel about it and want to discuss it and be there for you if they can. A friend doesn't blurt out hurtful things and then walk away.

Everybody else doesn't matter. They aren't your friends :O)
Heidu

The highest reward for a person's toil is not what they get for it, but what they become by it.
John Ruskin