Saluki,
I'm your age, so I dont really know from first hand experience. But I also dont think your planning too early. These are things that girls at our age just think about. It's not exactly planning.. It's just.. thinking. I'm kind of the same way, but about a wedding and marriage instead of children. And I dont even have a ring on my finger yet!

But, I know my mom went back to school when I was younger. She got a.. degree in public administration, I believe. I was probably 2 or so, and my sister was probably 5 or 6. I turned out okay, lol. The only long term results from her having a kid while being in grad school was, well... Her text books have some crayon scribblings in them (I know in one book, she had written her name inside the front cover, and I scribbled underneath cause I wanted to write in there like she did). If I were you and wanted to have kids sooner rather than later, I guess, I would rather have children first then let them get a bit older -- to where they can go to day care -- and then go back to school. I'd hate to get pregnant in the middle of it all, especially a first pregnancy. Yeah, I guess thats my overall opinion. Get pregnant before or after grad school, but never during.

Okay, I'm just rambling. Sorry. Try and just go with the flow, and not worry about everything. Just think, no planning or worrying

Ro