Personally I would not put up with this.

Besides the emotional torture, you are also putting yourself at risk for sexual diseases.

Sounds like he might have some sort of addiction. It is essential to see a counselor if you want the marriage to work. Tolerating it is not the way to go, you need to give him an ultimatum if he keeps breaking the trust.

Having an unwholesome husband is just as or can be even more damaging as having no husband. You got to know where the line is and be clear about standing firm on your side.

I wish you well.