that sounds like a horrible time for the both of you...very intense and emotion filled. i'm sorry.

as to the laughter. dear, i can SO relate. in extreme emotional stress this body will laugh. i say this body, because no part of me is laughing...anywhere. i felt so much better when someone explained to me that it's an hysterical response. it sucks when it's inappropriate.

once i watched a child (i was a child as well) get hit by a motorcycle. thank goodness the child wasn't hurt horribly. however, i got yelled at by adults because this body stood there laughing when all i wanted to do was cry. i understand how confusing and upsetting for those around you, that it can be.

i'm glad you are in marital counseling. can you tell counselor what you've learned about hysterical reaction and possible let him/her explain that to hubby?

gl, and please let us know.

kd