I have been marreid for a few months. I was reading through my husbands email and found that he had two "emotional affairs" or maybe even "cyber sex" with two different women one of them three months before we married. Both were while we were engaged and living together. This is one man that I never thought would do something like this. I trusted him with everything I have. We are both near 40 and have children. If I had found out before we married, the wedding would have definately been put on hold.Now that we are married, I don't want a divorce. I want to trust him again. I never thought I coudl love anyone this much. Do you think it is possible to cheat and then be faithful....I don't want to be a fool.