OMG....sweet heart....RUN RUN RUN as fast as you can....I would never ever tell anybody what to do, but this guy is a total mess and he's a player!
I suggest you to read your own writing one more time....There is nothing good about this relationship, why are you wasting your time?
He's telling you that he's on probation and it's false....oh...right...he knows better about law than the judge up in the court!!! Come on girl...wake up...
I want to hear from you that you stop contacting this guy....I'm afraid that he hurts you badly....watch out....why don't you get in touch with the ex-wife to find out what was going on?
There are other guys out there too....lots of them....
take care and be careful....
Marjan