well I'll take a stab and say it could be your age...women usually peak around 30-35 wheras guys do around 18-20

I married the only person Ive had sex with, so Im not one to have much insight other
than my wife and I have regular sex and then sometimes we have "deep passionate" sex

Ive learned that women need lots of attention and emotional nurturing before the "deep passionate" sex happens...and its well worth it when I spend the extra effort to do that

took me a long time to learn the ways of the force when it comes to making love to women...maybe your boyfriend hasnt learned to master that emotional bond

hell when I was younger I didnt have a clue

hope this helps