
Apr 23, 2009, 05:44 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
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Originally Posted by Brian37
she might be able to give me some better insight, because they actually know each other, which is quite weird...of course she will play the "mind" card and tell me I only know her from the time we spent in session....
yeah, yeah, I only know my wife from the times we sat in a restaurant or in her bed because thats all we did while dating....now were married and we do nothing but argue, go figure
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Humor aside, you are definitely belittling the idea that you didn't/don't have a serious involvement with your ex T. You compare it to your wife and some trivial aspects of relationships--sitting together, dining, and sleeping. What about love, mutual emotional support, sex.....? Your non-random comparisons is ex-T = girlfriend/wife. Off-the-cuff as it is, it’s a striking few sentences.
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Originally Posted by Brian37
my therapist charges 150.00/hour but my ins. (Anthem) reimburses her 69.23$.... maybe she only gives me 69.23 $ worth of therapy then instead of 150.00???
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You get into interesting territory here for me--someone with a bit of an education in political economy.
It depends of what theory of value you apply to the situation. E.g. , the labor theory of value.
In terms of opportunity costs and a market theory of value, the value she gives you is the value she would get from seeing a patient paying $150 in full--a hypothetical patient who she could be seeing in place of you.
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