My sister I think avoids me. She has found a new friend that she invites everywhere. They go shopping, to the tattoo place and tomarow they are going on a weekend camping trip and to an engine show. I have tried and tried to get my sister to come get me so me can do something together. i have offered to pay for her gas and everything. The last time we were anywhere together, was about 2 years ago and I ended up spending alot of money buying her things. Just like when our mom got sick, mom got $20,000 from her insurance company because of her illmess. My sister would'nt let me go out with her and mom and they always went shopping out to eat, to the salon etc. It seems like the only time she wants to be around me is when I got money. I don't know if it's a jealousy thing or what. When my mom got her money (she also had $40,000 in the bank) my sister and brother got brand new four wheelers for Christmas. I got some CD's. I don't care if they got more than me, it just seems my sister used my mom for her money too. Not that she did'nt love mom it's just she's kind of manipulative. Now the only time she wants to come over is if I got something to share. Like with my mom's estate, it's worth $227,000 and my sister put the whole thing on my shoulders with the lawyers (she waived her right to have to be at court, sign anything and even be responsible for the lawyers fees) but she is quick to tell me she wants my great papaws antique John Deere even though it's supposed to go to my uncle. And it's supposed to be used for matinance on the land. She has argued and argues with me over mom's things and and the dollar worth of the house (she want's to sell it but it's been in our family 8 generations and I want to give it to one of my uncles or grandma). I am so sad by how she's acting. Now I can hardley get her to talk to me on he phone. We used to talk for 2 hours everyday or instant message over myspace but now she always busy with her friend. I wanted her to come over for my birthday dinner on the 4th of April but she wanted to go out with her friend so none of my family showed up for it. Then she got mad because my grandmother took me my husband and my sons out to Cracker Barrel for my birthday. She was mad cause she was'nt invited. She acts as if I did'nt invite her to anything. My grandmother did'nt invite her because we knew she was busy with this friend of hers. She even got mad because my grandma gave me a chocolate rabbit for Easter. I am at my wits end with her.