Thread: Telling Family
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Old Apr 23, 2009, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted by ohsohxc View Post
it's very difficult to be intimate without having to get drunk or high first because every touch reminds me of back then.
I spent my late teens and 20's using this approach. It gets a LOT tougher in the 30's and 40's. Expecially with kids and when instead of a bf you have a H.

I've never told anyone until my T this year. I have no contact with my abusers and only have my brother left to tell.... since he was there and they were his friends...he knows what happened.

I'm sorry you are in a situation where you have to interact with your abuse. (((many hugs))) Welcome to PC.
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