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Old Apr 23, 2009, 09:53 PM
missboots missboots is offline
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Camel, I told my T I was scared because I was getting to attached and she would refer me or abbandon me and She reminds me that she is not going anywhere and I can see her as long as I want. Your T might start talking about boundries. My T said she can't be my friend and is sorry I didn't have a Mom. She knows that I idolize her.
I left her a message this week saying I am so Lucky to have her as my T. That she helps me see things differently and that I'm so happy she is willing to work with me.
I do think it is important to tell T your feelings about her. Because when/if she ever tells you something you don't want to hear you can be honest with the not so possitive things as well. Which if you are working on changing your thinking I am sure she will challenge your beliefs/thoughts. I think T need to know when you attach so they can feel more comfortable helping you change. If your not attached they sure don't want to tell you negative things to change in fear you wont return. Being attached is healthy.