WW, i really wish that i lived close enough to you that i could help out. i totally understand what you're saying about the good in people. when i see someone do something untoward, it bothers me so much more if i'm having a lot of stress in my life....i know exactly about "picking up the booty" with a smile. i chased a pickup of kids the other day, they threw their drink cups out the windows, and lectured them to go back and get those cups. i felt so much better when they did that....and with respectfullness.....i know how order, kindness, beauty, love and peace makes us feel better. i wish it for you a thousandfold.....love, pat