yes i often hear more than what's said and i wonder 'where is that coming from?' and what the person is looking for, struggling with.
Of course i don't take it too far since i don't know the person in a way that could give me the insight into them that arouses my curiosity, nor do i have the education or skills to make me think i'm on spot, so i am curious in a general way (less stressful for me) and it sometimes turns around and points to me and i see something more in my resistances and wishes. It can allow me to see the unspoken, unthinkable things in me. Lol. Not necessarily a good thing.