WOW! Thanks so much everyone. By just reading your response, i was able to email my T last night with a decent answer. I am at a point in my life where everything feels temporary, so the few dreams that i do have seem so far away. Moreover, I have to be be willing to identify what my dreams are, and cope with the fact that those might change. I suppose the most important thing is that life is so unpredictable so who knows where i will end up.

( mixed up emotions)- At times I envy those who have it ALL together. Sometimes I feel that way toward to my T. Yet, I remember that she was once in my place. Lost and confused about her place in this world. Everyone has to take the journey, for some it's easier.

(Echoes)- I like the single/travel for pleasure scenario That's looking more attractive by the hour

(Luce)- Thanks for the assurance to be OK wherever i am in my life right now.

(sunrise)- I agree. I'm terrified to identify what my dreams are. Growing up, i didn't think that I would get beyond my awful upbringing, so to go to college was a dream in of it's self. Thanks for sharing your therapy experience.

(Soliaree)- You were the reason I answered my T's question. Thanks for pointing out the obvious for me. i just had to re-read my own post ahaha

(Phoenix7)- Thanks for the advice. I even added a few more that seem generic, but a dream nevertheless.

(Mouse)- You are exactly right, the answers will ALWAYS change, at least for me