I am sorry you are hurting, that is an awful thing to say. I think it is important for you to talk about it with her before you make any decisions about quitting. Maybe you misunderstood and she can explain. Never make any harsh decisions while you are upset wait and decide when you feel better.

I understand how this feels, I have been told the same thing in the past. The way it was explained to me was that people who have been abused and/or traumatized feel like victims. All they know is how to be and feel like a victim, it is normal for them. Anything else does not feel right. The trick is to understand what that feels like, know it is happening and try to move away from it. Only then can we understand the difference.

Xtree