I'm so sorry you feel that way.....

Around 2001, I started losing my sex drive....but my husband is practically a nympho. It got to the point where I would just give him what he wants VERY often to "get it over with" and to satisfy him.

I don't see anything wrong with caring enough for someone to satisfy them when you're in a funk......but I started to feel very resentful at times because of the sexual, emotional and verbal abuse I was getting along the way. And those around me were waving the red flags. In my case, it may be different...but if you're in a loving relationship, I don't know.

Please don't beat yourself up.