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Old May 19, 2005, 06:00 PM
dayzee9 dayzee9 is offline
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((((((((((((((9yesitsme....a little advice?))))))))

I'm not proud to say it but "back then" when I partied a lot; these situations came up all the time & I made sure I hung w/ friends I trusted.....ONE of those times, a guy who I thought respected me & I trusted undressed me & "did things" I woke up confused, scared, mad AND I couldn't look the guy in the eye ever since. PPL advise to talk to the guy and talk it out & find "closure" to the situation. For the most part I thoroughly agree -- he violated your "personal space" & friendship...if you feel strongly enough to state your case w/ him...talk it out -- otherwise, learn from the scene & move on...

Parties & alcohol/drugs lost me a lot of good friends...be careful out there!I'm sorry you had to go thru that situation.....it eats at ya....bad news, gf! Just thinking about my experiences creeps me out & not having "closure" w/ the guy/friend leaves me feeling remorse.

Keep safe, girl! (((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

DAYZEE9
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