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Originally Posted by del12
Sometimes I am in a situation where I can't leave and the person who is verbally tearing me apart continues even if I gently ask them to stop.
It seems I then get the glares from others around me as if to say how dare you stand up for yourself. I feel like they either think I deserve it or they don't like it if someone upsets the staus quo. It is interesting that they agree with me when the abuser leaves.
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Why can't you leave and why do you have to keep being around this abuser?
So these people are afraid of the abuser then?
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