Thread: Oh Baby...!
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Old Apr 26, 2009, 02:33 AM
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Hi sweetie, nothing wrong with that! The biological clock doesn't often stop or start when convenient with life unfortunately. I had my son when I was 21 and he went through all the mental health hardship with me. I was also a single mother. It would be good if you could find a person that you love to have the baby with(just speaking from experience).

My boy is 14 now and is a great kid. He has his ups and downs and has faced more than his fare share of instability but he laughs a lot and has good friends and does well at school. It is very hard though and I had to be super diligent, probably more than other parents. It can be done!!

He saved my life. Everyones reasons for wanting a child are different. I never wanted children, they terrified me! But I was offered a lifeline by the birth of my son. He taught me more than I could ever teach him. Someone was looking out for me the day I got pregnant.

Good luck babe.......I really feel your situation. When I met my current partner, I really wanted to have my second child with him but unfortunately I am perimenopausal and have thyroid and gynealogical issues. It is unlikely I could conceive and probably dangerous if i did. I am 35. I have a very good friend who had a baby last year so I am surrogate aunty. I love it! It fills the void of the second child I cannot have.

Go for it eddie!!! I really hope it comes through for you. I think you would make a wonderful mum. You sound like you know exactly what you want.
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