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First, try and not get yourself into that situation, so it doesn't happen again.
(((hugs)))

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I'm behind Sky on this one.

I am a former barfly party-girl, but clean and sober since the 80s. I was date-raped twice in drunk situations -- but long, long before there was term for it. I figured it was my fault for getting myself in those situations. I was stunned when I read a news magazine article in the late 90s identifying what had happened with this new concept -- date rape -- that made it not my fault. It was like a divine revelation!

Nonetheless, I take responsibility for the consequences of my drinking behaviors. I feel pretty lucky that I didn't wind up with my brains on the walls of some psycho's apartment.

Perhaps your discomfort is a cue to consider how you want to live your life. Then again, maybe not.

Take care