Thank you very much, notme9. I did read the book you suggested, In Session, and I agree that it's an excellent one. I know that my feelings are common, but they make it hard for me to separate from my T. I'm not in regular therapy anymore, and I want to feel good about my relationship with her without these powerful feelings getting in the way.

I guess I have to tell myself "it's okay to still feel this way. I'm still a work in progress." Does that make sense? My T used to tell me that I'm a work in progress when I complained that I wasn't totally "cured." I think we are all "works in progress" our whole lives, anyway.