You probably won't like my response, but I am with Sky & wants2fly.....when a person puts themselves into a situation that we are not in control of, anything is possible whether we like it or not.....& things worse can happen whether we like it or not. It could be that he was in the same condition as you, but he knew what he was doing.

Guess I would ask myself if I wanted it to happen again & whether I wanted to put myself into a position that it could happen to me again???? You actually got off lucky compared to what others have.

I am sorry that you had an experience like that. No, it isn't your fault, but sometimes the uncomfortable situations we find ourselves in are trying to teach us about ourselves.

In reality, you are the one that has to decide what you can deal with.

Please take care of yourself.