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Old May 19, 2005, 08:04 PM
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I'm with sky and wants to as well. When you add booze or any other mind altering substance, the sweetest, most trustworthy people can become monsters... the shyest the most obnoxious... so on and so forth. And even if you start the night off completely surrounbded by those you trust, there is the possibility that others could arrive, and heaven forbid that your friends get preoccupied and don't catch those things. My friends got preoccupied that night that I came to on the brink of being raped... by someone who wasn't there at the start of the night. Anything can happen... and in the end, we end up victims because of our preconcieved notions that all will be well because we are with friends. It's sad and true.

We aren't trying to jump down your throat or blame you, per se... its just that although he was most definitley way out in the left field of being dead freaking WRONG, the thing that put you in a vulnerable state was you drinking and assuming that all would be well because you trust your friends when sober. Just be careful... don't drink until you are that far gone, because a hell of a lot worse can happen... I have horror stories I don't care to air in public!

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