Searching, sounds like you weighted all your options and are making a sound choice. My question is, you and your H saw this T for couples therapy, now you are going to her individually. What if you and your DH need to return to couples at some point. Would you just go together again?

I originally wanted a T who could treat the whole family. But then things kind of blew up in my face with that. I shifted to individual therapy with her. At the moment, even though couples therapy might be beneficial...I don't want to go there. I'm just curious how you might handle couples--individual---couples flip flopping.