Yeah - at 19 years old I know the days of telling him what to do are far behind us and while him and his gf are slowly improving on their relationship after seven months together... the relationship between his gf and his older brother has come to a halt after last the up roar from last night.

My oldest son does not live at home, he lives with his finance and they have our first (and only) grand child a precious little girl that my husband and I love to see and spend time with... but as of tonight we have been informed that they have had it with my yongest sons gf and her ways and that they will no longer be stopping by the house when they know she will be there or going to be there.... oh what to do? - as I love them both.

Guess I am trying to come up with a way to talk to them all with out hurting any one to much.... or offending my youngest son or his gf.
It is times like this that I hate being the parent.