We woman all have needs and if being with a man makes us a ***** than many more woman must raise their hands ..me included. I have a STD that I just found out that I have. Why now? Cause I was in denial. My T told me to get checked and I didn't want to...I didn't need to...but I did and I found out that I have herpies....and it's a real pain. I thought it was just wet rash from sweating...but now I'm aware of it and can take meds when I get a a break out (like today). So don't beat yourself up...you are not alone...someone has gone through it too. Remember that you are truly love...and never alone...God is always with you.