Dm, I think you are on the right track, just keep it up! You deserve some rest and care also. and don't worry about your inlaws... They should have, in first place offered help from the start, it's a matter of education and help. If you find yourself again in a tight spot don't hesitate to start over again in telling other people what you need. You will get used to talking to them. It's ok for you to want your home in order. I get crazy also if I find things out of place or untidy, specially when you have small children that demand a certain order in life. Rap