Jo, I have been in my own little world and I am sorry not to see this sooner. You are and always have been my cheerleader. Your anger is valid and in the expression of such we can all learn. You are direct and honest and lay it on the line. I respect you greatly. Feel a friendship with you and wish that this wonderful time in your life could be shared and celebrated. You are a loving soul and a good friend. I am so glad to see this post because I myself am afraid of anger and here you are being an incredible role-model. My dear friend, I wish you peace.