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Old Oct 07, 2003, 12:52 PM
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Fuzzy, when that happens to me, I consider the source and then forget it. Most of the time, when people put you down or try to make you feel stupid, it's because they are insecure in themselves. They haven't or won't learn how to deal with issues without using others to lift themselves up.

I'm with Heidu. If someone critizes me, I look at the critizism and see if there is any truth in it. If there is, I go lick my wounds and then try to change whatever I was critized about to my degree and to the best of my ability. If I find that it was just someone showing their tush, then I forget it. It's a reflection on them, not me.

I find you a very carying, sensitive, warm person.

Oh... and against the advise from other nice people here, I say... go ahead and cry. Tears are cleansing. {{{{{{Fuzzy}}}}}}

<font color=blue>This above all: To thine own self be true. --Shakespeare</font color=blue>
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