(((((((che170))))))))))))))))) know first of all you have done well. For them to grow up and be able to function on thier own is such a blessing. Yes i know its hard and of course you are going to worry. You know why because you have guided him all his life. As we all do as parents. But with AS or as my sone has PDD i think the watching of struggles all thier life makes it a little more. well ok alot more lol
My son was suppose to go to college now changed his mind to the marines. yes I am haivng a hard time with that,
The college I prayed would happen.
Your not being selfish you are being a Mom
give him his wings if you can. Tell him you are always here for him and that you love him. And that you are so very proud of him.
Then i will hand you some kleenex
good luck and you are blessed with what sounds like a very good son