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Old Apr 27, 2009, 09:43 PM
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My T once pointed out that "no one likes to clean bathrooms" :-) so it makes sense not to "choose" housework if there's other things you would rather do. I learned pretty quick that a lot of things that others, or even I decide "should" be done are just habits I've grown up with other my letting others dictate what I should do. Just because we were raised to make our beds every morning first thing and do the dishes immediately after dinner doesn't make that the "right" or only way to do things. The world won't come to an end if we don't do dishes until the next morning :-)

I use to love to sleep whenever I was having "helpful" dreams; I was interested in seeing what they'd tell me, what I'd learn that would help my therapy along, etc.
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Thanks for this!
Beholden, Hunny